The secret to getting over your ex fast
I used to try to get over my ex by doing all the things they tell you to do.
I cried. I picked a new hobby. I threw myself into work. I dated and hooked up.
Doing all of that didn’t guarantee that I’d have what I thought. And I didn’t become the person I thought I would.
I thought that would give me the peace of mind that comes after I am over them. I thought I’d finally let go of the resentment and grief. I thought I’d be my best self, ready for my most loving relationship ever.
Doing things doesn’t give you what you thought you’d have. And you don’t become a different version.
It actually happens in the reverse order.
You must be who you desire to be in order to do what it takes to have what you want.
The order goes like this:
Be
Do
Have
When I help my clients, we get really clear on who you are being once you’re over your ex. And then we go to work on removing all the obstacles blocking you from being that person (often these things are in your own blind spots and it’s my job as your coach to question the beliefs keeping you stuck)
This is the secret sauce to getting over your ex fast.
This is how I help you forget your ex in 10 days.
Who is the version of you waiting and praying you get over your ex ASAP? What would you have in your life? What would you do with your time and mental energy if you’re no longer ruminating about your ex?
What else can be possible in your life?
I want you to have MORE.
If you’re ready for more, let’s talk about it on a free consultation call. Book yours here.